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The Quest For Who We Are: Modern Psychology and the Sacred

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The cures for the spirit … have been discovered by the ancients; but it is our task to learn the method and the time of treatment.” – Seneca

There is no technique used in Western therapy that is not also found in other cultures.” – E. Fuller Torrey

Psychology today is in a state of confusion. It has failed to understand our true human identity and to provide a satisfactory answer to the perennial question: “Who AM I?”. The scope of present-day mental health treatment has been reduced to purely profane considerations, ignoring the fullness of what it means to be human, and neglecting the sacred dimension of life altogether. Due to mainstream psychology’s rejection of its metaphysical roots, our relationship with other sentient beings and the natural world has been fractured, which has brought devastating consequences to our lives. In the interest of developing more holistic modes of therapeutic treatment, we need to restore the traditional notion of a “science of the soul” as it has been known since the earliest times across the diverse spiritual cultures of humanity. [READ SAMPLE PAGES from Chapter 1 ‘In Search of the True Self’ HERE]

“This fine book by Samuel Bendeck Sotillos is an effective bridge-builder, connecting the confusing domain of psychology—‘knowledge of the psyche’—to the liberating realm of pneumatology—‘knowledge of the Spirit.’” – Reza Shah-Kazemi

“A bold position is presented in The Quest For Who We Are. Psychology has lost its bearings and failed to address our true needs as human beings… Sotillos makes a valiant effort to restore this discipline to its proper place in our lives.” – James Fadiman

“It offers a robust critique of modern psychology’s assault on religion and the sacred. With acumen, rigor and a wealth of illustrations, Samuel Bendeck Sotillos demonstrates how only a ‘science of the soul’—based on transcendent principles of a metaphysical order—can provide serious answers to the manifold crises of our times.” – Patrick Laude

“Sotillos brilliantly unites our contemporary understanding of the self with ancient spiritual wisdom, and challenges epistemological biases in the field of psychology.” – Abdallah Rothman

“Samuel Bendeck Sotillos diagnoses the malaise of the modern world as a fundamental disconnect between personal egoistic consciousness and the true spiritual nature of reality.” – Kabir Helminski


“The Personality, or pure Spirit, is in no way subject to individual personality, which is but its reflection, or to the conditions that determine the self. Even in its relations with the self, the Personality remains unaffected by any individual modifications, which are wholly contingent and not exigent to the Personality, inasmuch as they all proceed from divine essence, as from a single seed.” – Meister Eckhart

“Out of this myriad mosaic of [the spiritual traditions] emerges a pattern of the human personality in the cosmos that is unerringly consistent, clear, and struck through with a resonance infallible in its ever renewed reverberations of the one same Reality.” – Whitall N. Perry

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“The state of optimal personality growth, regardless of time, place, and the degree of culture, shares the same characteristics. All people have adopted the same goal of experiencing final integration, and moreover, the methods they use are similar. The name makes no difference; it is the experience which is the same. Under this assumption, the concepts of East and West … vanish and have no validity in the mature state.” – A. Reza Arasteh

This book comprises four chapters as follows:

Chapter 1: In Search of the True Self addresses the confusion found in modern Western psychology today, and its failure to discern that we have a fundamental identity that is grounded in the transcendent. Mental health treatment these days fails to differentiate our ‘true self’ from an empirical ego or personality that has been severed from its spiritual roots. In the absence of a sacred orientation, how can the modern discipline provide enduring therapies and effective healing?

Chapter 2: Recovering the Eye of the Heart explores the necessity of restoring an innate spiritual faculty in us that is capable of a true apprehension of reality in all its depth—a compelling metaphysical vision that rejects the pernicious Cartesian bifurcation, which modern Western psychology has, in large part, adopted unwittingly. Due to the eclipse of this transpersonal way of knowing reality, we struggle to get to the heart of what mental health is, let alone diagnose or successfully treat maladies of the spirit.

Chapter 3: The Metaphysics of Human Diversity argues that modern Western psychology has adopted a ‘horizontal’ understanding of “self” and “other”; in other words, that it is devoid of a ‘vertical’ or transcendent dimension, without which the True Self will continue to elude the crippled methodology of contemporary psycho therapies.

Chapter 4: The Divided Self and Our Fractured Ecology delves into the precarious situation that prevails on this planet. It points out modern Western psychology’s inability to properly address the ecological crisis because of its desacralized and reductionistic outlook, which has severed our intimate connection to life in all of its rich panoply (corporeal, psychic, and spiritual). By turning to a “science of the soul” — found in each of the world’s great wisdom traditions — we can restore the sacred dimension that is critical to a healthy equilibrium between the self and its environment.

Introduction (excerpt)

“Today, a serious crisis confronts the discipline of psychology and the field of mental health in general. This is being felt more widely than ever before, yet most people either misunderstand the problem or do not recognize it at all. Although increased funding and better legislation would assist many people, especially struggling communities, these alone will not help resolve the underlying impasse—nor will recruiting more professionals (to address the problem of staff shortages and retention), improving enforcement of evidence-based practices, or providing more training in cultural competency. This book endeavors to disclose what lies at the heart of this dilemma.

Since its inception, modern Western psychology has gradually cut itself off from its metaphysical roots. This is evidenced, in part, by a shift from adopting words such as soul or psyche to an almost exclusive use of mind. This process of severing the human soul from the spiritual dimension, in large part, is due to the emergence of the modern world and its secularizing outlook. The concept of psychology is roughly 500 years old, yet, as a subject of study and practice, it is much older than the word itself, which can readily be seen when we consider the worldview of ancient peoples.”

Contents
Preface 7
Introduction 9
Chapter 1 In Search of the True Self 15
Chapter 2 Recovering the Eye of the Heart 42
Chapter 3 The Metaphysics of Human Diversity 55
Chapter 4 The Divided Self and Our Fractured Ecology 85
Sources 118
Bibliography 119
Endnotes 141
Author Biography 183


Author Biography:

Samuel Bendeck Sotillos, PsyD, LMFT, LPCC, CCMHC, NCC, CPRP, CCTP, MHRS, is a practicing psychotherapist who has worked for many years in the field of mental health and social services. His focus is on comparative religion and the intersection between culture, spirituality, and psychology. His works include Paths That Lead to the Same Summit: An Annotated Guide to World Spirituality (2020), Dismantling Freud: Fake Therapy and the Psychoanalytic Worldview (2020), and Behaviorism: The Quandary of a Psychology without a Soul (2017). His articles have appeared in numerous journals and periodicals. He lives on the Central Coast of California.

Man in the Maze (cover image):

“To the Papago [Tohono Oʼodham] the man at the top of the basket symbolizes birth—of the individual, of the family, of the tribe. As the figure goes through the maze he encounters many turns, many changes. Many of the elderly Papago often talk of a turn in their life and liken it to a turn in the maze. Progressing deeper and deeper into the pattern, one acquires more knowledge, strength, and understanding. As the figure nears the end of the maze he sees his death approaching: the dark center of the pattern. It is here that he repents, cleanses himself, and reflects back on all the wisdom he has gained. Finally pure and in harmony with the world, he accepts death.” (Terry DeWald, The Papago Indians and Their Basketry [Tucson, AZ, 1979)], p. 4.)

The National Museum of the American Indian has granted permission to the publisher to utilize the basket tray image of the “Man in the Maze” (catalog number: 11/415) for the cover of this book.


Who am I? — and What is Personality? (Excerpt from Chapter 1 ‘In Search of the True Self’)

It has been widely recognized that “The concept of personality is central in Western psychology.”35 Furthermore, we are informed that “In the West it was Freud who began the systematic study of personality.”36 Nonetheless, after more than a hundred years following the inception of this discipline, psychology is still wrestling with the question: “What is personality?” Consequently, it is widely recognized that: “There is no agreement among contemporary psychologists on a definition of the term ‘personality.’”37 In addition, “Modern theorists of personality seem to differ radically from one another in their assessment of the importance of the identity issue.”

Psychology in the modern world aims to study what is beyond its ontological and epistemological competence, thus trespassing into the domain of metaphysics. Since it cannot verify either the existence of a spiritual domain or the reality of the human psyche, it has been called “a psychology without a soul”—a puzzling assessment given that the soul, traditionally, was the raison d’être for psychology’s very existence. C.G. Jung (1875–1961) writes: 

It was universally believed in the Middle Ages as well as in the GræcoRoman world that the soul is a substance. Indeed, mankind as a whole has held this belief from its earliest beginnings, and it was left for the second half of the nineteenth century to develop a “psychology without a soul.” Under the influence of scientific materialism, everything that could not be seen with the eyes or touched with the hands was held in doubt; such things were even laughed at because of their supposed affinity with metaphysics. Nothing was considered “scientific” or admitted to be true unless it could be perceived by the senses or traced back to physical causes.

A number of contemporary authorities have openly discussed the impasse reached by today’s therapeutic orientations: “There is a tie that can unite all of us: the frank acknowledgment that we know very little.” And again: “We know so little of the earliest and deepest strata of the human mind.” Because it attempts to operate beyond its proper bounds, psychology takes on an impossible task and is ill-equipped to comprehend personality in its fullness or, for that matter, any dimension of the human psyche. Rollo May (1909–1994) notes: 

The chief characteristic of the last half of the nineteenth century was the breaking up of personality into fragments. These fragments … were symptoms of the … psychological and spiritual disintegration occurring in the culture and in the individual. One can see this splitting up of the individual personality not only in the psychology and the science of the period but in almost every aspect of late nineteenth-century culture.

When viewed through the lens of its materialistic reductionism, psychology dehumanizes people: “Psychology comes in with the bulk of its theories, its prevailing views of human personality, its images of man, obviously in league with the objectives of the nihilist Satanic spirit. Man is a computer, an animal, or an infant. His destiny is completely determined by genes, instincts, accidents, early conditionings and reinforcements, cultural and social forces.”

Reviews

Dr. Samuel Bendeck Sotillos’s words are a powerful prescription that restore true psychology to the soul. Sotillos—much like a traditional medicine man—takes us on a journey that traces the exact place where we lost ‘psyche,’ and gives us much-needed medicine for the maladies afflicting our deeply troubled times. Bringing back our lost and wandering spirit to the discipline is crucial to healing the world’s soul, and will help rehabilitate humanity’s relationship to the Sacred. The Quest For Who We Are is a significant step towards the fulfillment of Black Elk’s Vision of restoring the ‘Sacred Hoop’—a compelling read for all spiritual seekers.
Eduardo Duran (Tiospaye Ta Woapiye Wicasa), Native American psychologist, author of Healing the Soul Wound: Trauma-Informed Counseling for Indigenous Communities
A bold position is presented in The Quest For Who We Are. Psychology has lost its bearings and failed to address our true needs as human beings. This failure has also done great harm to our relationship with others, and degraded our attitude to the natural world. Samuel Bendeck Sotillos makes a valiant effort to restore this discipline to its proper place in our lives.
James Fadiman, Co-founder of the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, author of The Psychedelic Explorer's Guide: Safe, Therapeutic, and Sacred Journeys
In The Quest For Who We Are: Modern Psychology and the Sacred, Samuel Bendeck Sotillos brilliantly unites our contemporary understanding of the self with ancient spiritual wisdom, and challenges epistemological biases in the field of psychology. This enlightening book offers mental health professionals, individuals of faith, and curious readers a bridge to the perceived gap between the secular and sacred. It unveils the potential for spirituality and tradition to deepen our understanding of ourselves, and to provide relevant contemporary applications. An indispensable guide for those seeking to approach psychology as it was meant to be: a ‘science of the soul.’
Abdallah Rothman, Islamic psychologist, Executive Director of the International Association of Islamic Psychology, author of Developing a Model of Islamic Psychology and Psychotherapy: Islamic Theology and Contemporary Understandings of Psychology
The Quest For Who We Are is a timely, engaging and important contribution to the field of traditional studies. It offers a robust critique of modern psychology’s assault on religion and the sacred. With acumen, rigor and a wealth of illustrations, Samuel Bendeck Sotillos demonstrates how only a ‘science of the soul’—based on transcendent principles of a metaphysical order—can provide serious answers to the manifold crises of our times; whether it be the rise of psychological disorders and the culture of narcissism, the atomizing lure of identity politics, or the increasingly alarming portents of environmental destruction. Indispensable to anyone in search of self-knowledge, this work furnishes valuable insights for understanding today’s world and its unprecedented challenges.
Patrick Laude, Professor of Theology and Religious Studies, Georgetown University in Qatar, author of Surrendering to the Self: Ramana Maharshi’s Message for the Present
This fine book by Samuel Bendeck Sotillos is an effective bridge-builder, connecting the confusing domain of psychology—‘knowledge of the psyche’—to the liberating realm of pneumatology—‘knowledge of the Spirit.’ Jung famously confessed his inability to discern the true, objective nature of the psyche, stating ‘there is no Archimedean point from which to judge, since the psyche is indistinguishable from its manifestations. The psyche is the object of psychology, and—fatally enough—also its subject. There is no getting away from this fact.’ Jung thus admits that modern psychology is essentially the story of inescapable subjectivism, the proverbial cat chasing its own tail, going round and round and circles, intrinsically incapable of attaining the object of its quest. He thereby also bears witness, a contrario, to the fact that objectivity vis-à-vis the soul can only be attained by virtue of a ‘spiritual’ science: one wherein the Spirit transcending the soul sheds light on the unfathomable obscurities of the psyche and, more importantly, shows the ways and means by which the roots of all maladies of the psyche can be dissolved. These ways and means are summed up by the saying of Imam Ali, addressed to God: ‘O Thou whose Name is the remedy, and whose Invocation is the cure.’ What we are given in The Quest For Who We Are: Modern Psychology and the Sacred is an excellent commentary on Imam Ali’s indication of the quintessence of the Way which leads us from the haunted prisons of modern psychology to the holy lands of the transcendent Spirit.
Reza Shah-Kazemi, author of works on Comparative Religion and Islamic Studies, including Paths to Transcendence: According to Shankara, Ibn Arabi and Meister Eckhart
Samuel Bendeck Sotillos diagnoses the malaise of the modern world as a fundamental disconnect between personal egoistic consciousness and the true spiritual nature of reality. Arguing from a traditionalist perspective, he offers a wealth of quotations from the world’s spiritual traditions. The Quest For Who We Are reveals a panorama of wisdom that is consistent in its affirmation of a universal truth about the nature of the human soul.
Kabir Helminski, author of The Mysterion: Rumi and the Secret of Becoming Fully Human