The Lives of Man

Mostafa al-Badawi


The Lives of Man: A Guide to the Human States: Before Life, In the World, and After Death

Translated by Mostafa Al Badawi with a Preface by T.J. Winters.

Based on the Qu’ran and Hadith, in this fascinating book, Imam al-Haddad explains that every human being passes through several “lives:” before conception, life in the world, life in the grave, the Resurrection, and finally, the Garden or the Fire. A complete Muslim must be aware of each of these if he is to be sufficiently prepared for eternal life.

What happens after Death? Who are “Munkar and Nakir?” What will Heaven and Hell be like? What signs should we expect before the day of Judgement? Who is the Dajjal? When will the Mahdi appear?

These and many other questions are answered, on the basis of the Qu’ran and Hadith, in this fascinating book. Imam al-Haddad explains that every human being passes through the “lives:” before conception, life in the world, life in the grave, the Resurrection, and finally, the Garden of the Fire. A complete Muslim must be aware of each of these if he is to be sufficiently prepared for eternal life.

From Timothy Winters preface to the book:

“No culture since Adam has lived in deeper ignorance of what man truly is: a symmetrical, noble form enshrining a soul, an organ capable of such translucence that it can, when the senses and passions which distract it are stilled, form a window onto that Reality of which this world offers no more than a distorted reflection. For those human beings who have been granted this state of awakening, the real world which they survey is truer than anything they had known here-below. All of us will see the real world, the ākhira, at death. But only the Prophets fully know of it before they die, and hence can warn their contemporaries. The revelations which God gives them, and which they give to mankind, are thus the only sources of meaning and understanding which will ever be available. To hold to them is to cling to a rope let down from God, while to let go is to fall ineluctably into chaos.”

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Excerpts from ‘The Lives of Man’ by Imam al Haddad:

The First Life: (Life Before Conception)
“The first life began with the creation of Adam, upon whom be peace, and the entrusting of his progeniture to his blessed loins, both the people of the Right and those of the Left, namely the people of the Two Fistfuls. Then God brought this progeniture out from Adam’s loins all at once, to take the covenant that they recognized (His) Unity and Lordship.” “Because of these events there can be no doubt that the progeniture was possessed of existence, hearing and speech; this, however, was at a degree or dimension of existence other than that of this world.”

We must also know that the Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu ‘alahi wa Sallam) had a more perfect and unique stature in this stage, so much so that his light (peace be upon him) could be heard glorifying Allah while within Adam’s (peace be upon him) loins, making a sound like that of birds.

The Second Life: (“Dunya” – The Lower World.)
“The second life begins when one is delivered from one’s mother’s womb, and ends when one departs from the world in death. This which is the middle of the lives, is also their purpose. It is the period when man is held accountable for (responding to) the divine injunctions and prohibitions, the consequences of which will be reward or punishment, endless happiness in the proximity of God, the High and Majestic, or perpetual torment and remoteness from Him.”

This section of existence is essentially broken down into the stages of Gestation, Childhood, Youth, Maturity, Seniority, Decrepitude, and ultimately Sickness and Death. The Imam beautifully explains the important aspects of each of these sub-stages and gives wise council and advice as to how to understand and succeed in them. Ultimately the key to understanding the gist of this chapter can be summed up in the Hadith which is mentioned at the end of the Afterward stating: “A man dies in accordance with what he had lived in, and is resurrected in accordance with what he had died in.” (Hadith)
In another narration of Hadith the Holy Prophet (Sallallahu ‘alahi wa Sallam) stated to Abu Darr: “O Abu Darr! The world is the prison of the believer, the grave his place of safety, and the Garden his end. O Abu Darr! The world is the Garden of the disbeliever, the grave is his torment, and the Fire his end.”

May Allah make us one of those who dwell in the Garden of the Afterlife, Amen!

The Third Life: (The Intermediate Realm)
“The third life extends from the time a man leaves the dunya at death until the moment he rises from his grave at the blowing of the Horn. This is the Intermediate Realm (Barzakh). God the Exalted has said:
And behind them is a barzakh until the day when they are raised. (23:100)

In this section Imam Al-Haddad breaks the chapter into several useful categories, namely; a Description of the Torment of the Grave and its Aspects, How the Living May Help the Dead, and Visiting the Graves.

Perhaps one of the most striking aspects of this chapter appears in the Afterword in which it is stated: “Created beings may, however, know about those signs and conditions which indicate its imminent advent. Many of these, which are described in many sound hadiths, have already come about, and only the major ones such as the sun rising from the West, the Dajjal (God curse him!), the Beast, and the coming of Jesus remain.”

The Fourth Life: (Judgement Day)
“The fourth life extends from the time when a person leaves his grave for the Resurrection and Gathering, until the moment when mankind enter the Garden or the Fire.”
Imam Al-Haddad uses this section to highlight the dire situation of the last day and the different events which will occur. This section is broken down into the sub-sections of; The Balance and the Bridge, The Hawd, and The Intercession. Each of these areas are dealt with in the necessary details with mention of why we would be in our specific predicament at that time and the ways to avoid bearing the sorrowful and difficult punishments and trials on that day. Perhaps one of the most riveting quotes from this chapter is a quotation from the Holy Qur’an relating to after the animals are given their judgment and due and God says to them “Become dust!”
“At that the disbeliever will say, would that I were dust!”(78:40)

The noble Imam goes on to highlight in detail, the respect, honor, and elevation that the Holy Prophet Muhammed (Sallallahu ‘alahi wa Sallam) will have on that day, and the relief that will be permitted to the believers through his intercession (shafa’a)

The Fifth Life: (The Fire and the Garden)
“The fifth life extends from the time the people of the Fire enter the Fire and the people of the Garden enter the Garden, and continues into unending, limitless eternity.

This is the longest of all lives, the best, most pleasant and most joyous for the people of the Garden, and the worst, hardest, and most hateful and wretched for the people of the Fire.”

This section outlines details pertaining to the Fire, admonitions, and advise as to how to avoid spending time in this wretched and painful place. To give a taste of the severity of this place the Imam relates Quranic verses and hadith including the following: “O people! Weep! And if you cannot weep then make as though you were weeping, for the people of the Fire shall weep in Jahannam until their tears run over their faces like streams. Then the tears will stop, blood will flow, and eyes ulcerate, so that if ships were launched therein they would float.” (Hadith)

The Imam goes on to elucidate aspects of the Garden and its countless pleasures, the foremost being the beatific vision of Allah. Relating to one of the beautiful aspects of the Garden, Imam Al-Haddad quotes the Hadith stating: “The area of the Garden which could be surrounded by a whip is better than the world and all that it contains. Should one of the women of the Garden appear to the people of the earth, she would illuminate it entirely, and render it fragrant with musk. The scarf which is upon her head is better than the world and all it contains.”

The treatise is concluded in accordance with classical Islamic tradition, with a description of the vision of God, and His overwhelming Mercy. In the final section Imam al-Haddad quotes the Hadith stating: “God has a hundred mercies, one of which He has sent down to be divided between humans, jinn, birds, cattle, and insects, and by which they have compasion and mercy towards each other. And He has saved ninety-nine mercies, with which He will be merciful to His slaves on the Day of Rising.”

The above is simply a brief taste of the Lives of Man, and after reading this we hope that one of two things occur: One, if you had never heard of Imam Al-Haddad and the Lives of Man, that you will read it and take heed, and two, that if you had heard of the book, or had already read it, that you will read it again to refresh yourself on the true reality of:

“The Way to Remember and Learn From the Lives of Man that Wane and Perish.”

All praise is due to Allah, Lord of the Worlds, and countless blessings upon the Holy Prophet Muhammed (Sallallahu ‘alahi wa Sallam), his family and companions. May Allah be pleased with, and may we benefit from Imam Al-Haddad and his legacy. Any mistakes in this work are assuredly mine and may Allah forgive us all. Amen.


Indispensable and concise. An indispensable book. Highly recommended for people of the Muslim Faith and others too.
S.A., July 11, 2020, Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read for All Muslims and Non-Muslims Alike!!This book by Imam Haddad answers all the basic questions all human beings are seeking answers for. How were we created by the God Almighty and Why and where do we go after death and what is awaiting us. It is a must read for all those who have failth in the God Almighty and prepare and behave well in this world, so that we can be successful in the life after death. A must read for all Muslims, and non-Muslims alike. We all will face death one day and and then another phase of our life will begin which is eternal and we must prepare for it here and now.
Dr. M, Aug 9, 2014, Amazon Customer
Will wake up the sleeping heart.---This relatively short treatise of Imam 'Alawi al-Haddad is a piercing reminder of where we are and where we are going. This book is both enlightening and terrifying (in a good way). The Shaykh guides us from the time before our conception all the way to our endpoint in the fire or the garden and reminds us of what is important in each phase of our life and what our responsibilities are. This book is not in depth in its topics, but that is not its point. If you want to study every hadith about the judgment day for example then you can do that somewhere else. A brief outline is given of every stage, both the seen and the unseen, to give a basic view of what has and is going to occur, but the focus is on the spiritual and what we can do to change our state. If you have a heart that is not dead this book will have a positive effect on you.
D.F., Feb 15, 2005, Amazon customer
Know where you came from and where you're going---Imam Al-Haddad's concise book on different stages of man is quiet remarkable. He divides lives of man into 5 stages. 1st stage being the realm of souls (alam'e Amr) where Allah created souls of all the human beings and took covenant from them. Second stage is the present life on Earth after expulsion of Adam and Eve from the Paradise. This is the most crucial stage, coming bliss or torment will be a direct result of deeds and conduct of this present life. Third stage is the intermediate realm of 'Barzakh' immediately after our death. This is where we'll taste what's about to come on the final day of judgement. Imam mentions that this stage is more closer to our final state in Paradise or Hell Fire (may Allah save us from it). Fourth stage begins from the day of resurrection till our deeds are judged and a final verdict is issued by Almighty as to where we're destined to go. Fifth and the final stage is the everlasting state of bliss in Paradise for the faithful and the righteous or the everlasting state of torment, agony and remorse for the sinners, rebels and transgressors.
A.M., April 14, 2013, Amazon Customer
"...written in appreciation of a classic of Islamic spirituality, the treatise fully entitled the The Way to Remember and Learn from the Lives of Man That Wane and Perish by Imam Abdallah Ibn Alawi Al-Haddad (Rady Allahu 'Anh). After reading the book, the reader may notice a penetrating essence in the work. The reasons for this must be clarified and the best way to describe this phenomena which may be experienced in all of Imam Al-Haddad's works can easily be summed up by a short quote from the famed Sheikh, Al-Suhrawardi: "If words come out from the heart, they will enter the heart, but if they come from the tongue, they will not pass beyond the ears." Indeed, it is the true sincerity and realization that great luminaries like Imam Al-Haddad experienced, which leads to their words changing men's hearts. The present work mentioned, namely The Lives of Man covers an indispensable virtue in the field of Islamic spirituality, namely the remembrance of death. The greatest scholars of Islam have for centuries, written on this topic and as a great scholar it is befitting that Imam Al-Haddad also wrote a treatise on the topic. As a final note to the introduction, we must understand the insurmountable importance and relevance this work has for today's Muslim. The current societal situation is one of frivolousness, and the engagement in irreligious and decadent matters. The true reason for our existence and the consequences of our deeds in this earthly abode are often forgotten or veiled from our thoughts so that we may spiral deeper into our love of the world. The Lives is a classic example of the thorough yet brief style in which Imam Al-Haddad wrote. The English translation by Mostapha al-Badawi is less than one hundred pages in length including appendices. Imam Al-Haddad knew the nature of man and the time constraints and span of attention the common man faces and the Lives, delivers a concise and moving message to its readers. The book is divided into five main chapters to accommodate the five stages of existence we will all go through. The first stage is the life before conception (1), and deals with the metaphysical state before entering the Dunya (2), which is the second life. This life is particularly addressed because of it's pivotal nature in relation to the proceeding three stages of existence. After the Dunya we will enter the Intermediate Realm (Barzakh) (3) from where it will become apparent to us what awaits on the Judgement Day (4) and ultimately the Fire or the Garden (5)."
-Omar Butt